Know the reality of life in God

There's a purpose to life's events that happen in your life, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard. Everything that happen arround you too have a purpose.

Indeed you can't make someone love you no matter how  much you love him. All you can do is to be someone who can be loved and able to relate with someone with the true meaning  of love

 [1 Corinthians 13:4-7] ; and the rest is up to the person to understand your love for God and exercise the true meaning and function of love.  As for you who have shared your problems with me in regards to the reality that you have encountered, please believe that God has something in mind for you. When you feel down because your boy friend look for other girls may seem better than you or because you did not get what you want, just wait for God, may be God has thought of wonderful things much better for you. My dear child whenever somethings happens to you, happy or sad, good or bad, or success or fail consider  what it means and ask God to comfort you and strengthen you. [1 Corinthians 1:8] .